Cookbook

I decided to create a cookbook for blossoming cooks and this would help a lot of people in their lives both when in a relationship and also for basic knowledge of the kitchen and the ingredients used in different recipes.

I decided to take the help of my mother and the help of my relatives abroad who were brought up in a kitchen. all of them agreed to help me in my project. Some of the recipes were very tough to do as when a recipe was given to me, I cooked it along with my mother and tested to see if other people would like it as much as me. Most of the recipes were very 'exotic' and 'complicated'. The others were very easy to make like the flan. I think the flan was the best dessert on the book becuse it was very imple and it tasted amazing! 

Personal Project Topic Change

I have been told that my personal project is a very controversial topic so I will be changing it to something else. This means that I will change the entire blog topic. I have decided to make a book on cooking and baking. The Global Context is the same as last time. Identities and Relationships. The final product is a cookbook.

It will be a cookbook that I will be publishing to the public to see. 

My Coming Out Story

When I was 12 years old, I question myself in the mirror saying, "Am I gay?'' So, I kept thinking that being gay was wrong and my dad is a very holy and christian person and since I'm from South-India my dad believed in the sayings of the Thirukkural written by Thiruvalluvar (a tamil poet). He believes that his son should marry a girl from a good family and good looks. The son should also give his father a grandson so his legacy carries on. At the age of 13, I realized that I was gay and I could not and will not ever come out to my dad because I think that he would be disappointed in me so I cant tell him that the apple of his eye is gay. 

The first person that I told was my best friend in my old school, Deepankar. He told me that it was okay and he would always support me. Slowly i told all my friends and they did not support me. Instead they tormented me and my sexual preference and it drove me to almost killing myself five times until my sister  I told my sister and she was thrilled to have a gay brother and she told me that it shouldn't let it bother me so much. 2 weeks after my 13th birthday, the guy that I had a serious crush on told me that he loved me. We dated for a very long time until I realised that he didnt love me and he never loved me. All that he wanted was me physically and nothing else. I broke up with him the next day that I found out. After that I swore to myself that I would never go for guys like him. After him I still had to deal with a my school crushes that I had. I slowly told the guys that I had a had a crush on, that I was gay and they were well the same as the others. They mocked me. But, I never let it get to me. I started being more friendly with the girls and they accepted me as one of them. 

 After that, 9th grade came and people started to see me as more of an asset than a liability. The girls asked for help with their wardrobe and the boys asked me how to get girls that they wanted. I made an impression on them that when I left them, all that they wanted was for me to come back to them.

My first entry

Entry1:

Welcome to my first blog! the series of blogs that I make will be about is how Homosexuality is more of an asset than a liability. I chose this topic because being homosexual, I know how rough it has been and still is for the LGBTQ+ community in this cruel world.

Global Context : Identities And Relationships
Final Product    : A Self Help Book for the LGBTQ+ community and for everyone to understand out community better.

 I will be basing my blog on events that have happened to other people and personal conflicts that I have had. Like today, being gay and also being 15 years old, it is very tough for me socially, emotionally and physically. But before I start about my blog I will be telling you guys a story about me coming out of the closet.